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SCIENTIFIC THINKING OF THE EDUCATED GIRLS OF THE NEW GENERATION

Young Bites. Dated: 6/21/2022 4:12:29 PM

VIJAY GARG In the changing world, in its new glare, the mood of life and the speed with which its behavior is changing is amazing. New possibilities full of uncertainty are seeing the new face of this changing society. These days a new language of the society, new outlook, new social beliefs and new practical values are being prepared in the changing society. With the rapid change in the way of life, it seems that everything has changed. He is also very happy in this change, which really should change. The orthodox beliefs which we have been following for centuries as a part of our life, with the new age, a new perspective of living a new life from a scientific point of view is now being given by our new generation. In our place for centuries, the marriage of a daughter is told as the importance of Kanyadaan. But the educated girls of the new generation are moving ahead with scientific thinking. Recently, a news caught the attention of the whole country in this direction, in which a newly made IAS girl did not let her daughter donate in her marriage. He told his father that I am your daughter, not an object of charity. Apart from this, all other rituals took place in this marriage and before this, marriage was also done in the court for legal recognition of modern marriage, but Kanyadaan was not done. The move, which is a fundamental right to women's freedom, has been seen as a loud voice against the orthodox traditions that prove women to be inferior. In fact, it happened for the first time in Narsinghpur district of Madhya Pradesh that in marriage, the girl was sent away from her father's house for the new direction of her future life. It can be considered a good initiative and a sample of healthy tradition. We have many such rituals and old traditions in the tradition of charity, by which many things have been authorized as the object of charity. But now times have changed and beliefs are also changing. The new young society of the changing world is writing a new chapter of the new society and is transforming the new values of life with its freedom and adaptability. It is not so easy to break such traditions and stereotypes in a society like India with diverse cultures and languages, customs and traditions. Some people will say that this marriage is not valid if the father has not do nated the girl child, but is such a marriage valid which is against the wishes of the girl? What will happen to those orthodox Khap Panchayats who are not ashamed at all while ordering to kill their own daughters in the name of different religion, caste and false honour. In fact, the time has come when no distinction should be made between son and daughter. The new ground for equal rights of both has been decided in this newly educated society. In this new era of public awakening, the new thinking of science has given a new definition of our relationships to a new ground and a new dimension to live with the hope of a new era. This kind of donation is not considered favorable at all. This is the era of freedom of expression and in that the girl's wish is no longer charity, but equal rights in relationships. Now the girl or daughter is present in that new world with her spirit, who is beautiful with her colors and dares to show the face of a new world. Thus, the tradition of donating a girl to charity is not mentioned in any of our texts. There is mention of events like marriage and swayamvara in mythology, but the definition of charity is in the form of a girl, it is nowhere. When such new incidents break such traditions, it also gives a call for a new direction to the new society of the new generation. Our governments have also buried the centuries-old laws made by the British in the last decade, so why not bury the old custom of words like Kanyadan. A new definition of the relation of equal harmony with special rights should be fixed for the new information of the society, in which there is no such thing as charity. However, it should be such a stage of the beginning of a new life, in which marriage is not a social bond and burden. A father sends his daughter to the new world, which is her own world, and not donates. This is the new wind of the new age and the future of new India.